Eliminate Toxic Thoughts to Find Balance & Happiness
Eliminate These 5 Toxic Thoughts
to Find Balance and happiness in your everyday life
Toxic thoughts can stop you from finding balance and happiness in your life. Such negative thoughts and emotions can drain you. They can affect each experience you have and make you feel resentful.
Beware of these toxic thoughts and use counter-strategies to increase your happiness:
1. I’ll always be alone. Being lonely and feeling isolated are normal human emotions. However, they become toxic when you believe things will always be this way.
· This toxic thought can make you feel like you’re the only person on the planet. It can make you believe you’ll never find love or a partner. And it can stop you from feeling content in your daily life.
· Instead of thinking you’ll always be alone, focus on what you already have. Do you have loving parents or siblings? Do you have amazing friends or coworkers? If you look carefully, you’ll see you’re never truly alone.
2. I hate my body. Hating your body can be one of the most toxic thoughts in your mind. It can lead to eating disorders, self-esteem issues, and other challenges. Anyone can find imperfections in themselves, but it’s important to avoid dwelling on them.
· Understand that your body is a gift. It’s part of what makes you unique. Notice the things you do like about your body. Accentuate those characteristics, focus on them, and you’ll find it easier to start loving the body you have.
3. I’m not happy with my career. Your job can make you feel unbalanced, but it’s another toxic thought. Try to avoid thinking about how much you hate your work.
· Of course, you may pursue a different career path. Seek out new work without dwelling on your hatred for the current job. Follow your passion for a new career without anger and resentment. It’s always more beneficial to go toward something instead of away from something else.
4. I’m not worthy. This toxic thought can wear many outfits. You may feel like you’re not worthy of love, success, money, or other things. You may believe that you always have to suffer and struggle. You may decide that you’re not meant for great things.
· However, this toxic thought can stop you from enjoying and finding a balance in life.
· These feelings of worthlessness are only in your mind. You’re a unique person with much value, but you may have convinced yourself otherwise.
· Often, this toxic thought comes from what you think others are thinking about you. You may assume that others don’t find you valuable, so you’re self-esteem sinks to a low level.
· Consider starting a new game: congratulate yourself each time you do something right. Find things that you do satisfactorily. Even small ones count. For example, if you made a tasty breakfast, congratulate yourself. If you like the outfit you’re wearing, kudos to you for picking out something nice. Let your thoughts dwell on what you do right!
5. I don’t have enough. This toxic thought can manifest itself in multiple ways, such as thinking you don’t have enough money, skills, talents, or abilities. You may also believe that you don’t have enough connections, friends, children, or things.
· Scarcity thoughts stop you from appreciating what you already have around you. They prevent you from finding happiness and contentment in being thankful. With these thoughts, you may never have enough material possessions or people to love, regardless of how many you actually have.
· You can certainly strive for more, but it’s essential to be thankful for what you do have.
Toxic thoughts are easy to create and often hard to eliminate. They can overwhelm you if you aren’t careful. If toxic thoughts have gotten a hold of you, it’s important to take action to shoo them out of your mind.
Notice when these toxic thoughts arise. Immediately, switch that thought to one that’s more positive and uplifts you. Meditate, repeat affirmations, and try these ideas to loosen their grip. Do these actions consistently, and soon you’ll find that things work out for your benefit more often.
